A promise is a way of binding a future self who never agreed to it. Defend the right of that future self to refuse.
I find promises to be intriguing. I am intent on defending the right of my future self to refuse. Perhaps I aim not to let down the people I make promises to. I do feel a responsibility to do what is right in that regard — to always be telling the truth when I am making a statement. Honesty is crucial to me. I know that if I make a promise that I believe to be true, I intend to maintain the integrity of that moment by following through with the promise into the future. Is that fair to my future self? My future self is not the same person who made the promise. I am judicious in t...